Importance of Child Participation in Funerals: A Case from Manipur
In a significant move, the Manipur Commission for Protection of Child Rights (MCPCR) has intervened in a case involving the alleged unnatural death of Khaidem Ongbi Chaoba Devi. This incident underscores the importance of upholding children's rights, particularly in sensitive situations such as funerals, and its implications for North East India and the broader Indian context.
Investigation and Arrests
Khaidem Ongbi Chaoba Devi was found dead on December 27, 2025, near her residence in Thiyam Leishangkhong, following her reported disappearance on the night of December 26. The incident led to widespread suspicion and unrest, resulting in damage to the deceased's husband's house and property. Manipur Police have arrested four individuals in connection with the case, including the deceased's husband and mother-in-law, who have been remanded to judicial custody.
Facilitating Children's Participation
In response to a representation from the deceased's relatives and the Joint Action Committee (JAC) constituted in connection with her death, the MCPCR has directed the concerned authorities to facilitate the participation of the two minor children in their mother's last rites and death-related rituals. The commission emphasized that this directive is purely facilitative and does not relate to custody matters or influence the ongoing investigation.
Children's Right to Participate in Funerals
The MCPCR highlighted that children have an inalienable right to participate in the last rites and death rituals of a deceased parent, invoking its powers under Section 13 of the Commission for Protection of Child Rights Act, 2005. The commission also directed the police authorities to ensure the safety and unobstructed participation of the minor children in the funeral, Asti Sanchay (Mangani Leihun) and Shraddha (Lanna Thouram) rituals.
Implications for North East India and Beyond
This case underscores the need for sensitivity and respect for children's rights, particularly in culturally diverse regions such as North East India. It also highlights the role of child rights commissions in ensuring that children's rights are protected, even in challenging circumstances. The outcome of this case may serve as a precedent for similar cases in the future, fostering a culture of respect for children's rights across India.
Reflections and Future Directions
As the last rites of Khaidem Ongbi Chaoba Devi are scheduled to be held on January 13, 2026, it is crucial that the concerned authorities adhere to the MCPCR's directive and ensure the safe and unobstructed participation of the minor children. This incident serves as a reminder of the importance of upholding children's rights, particularly in sensitive situations, and the role of child rights commissions in ensuring that these rights are protected.